Things I am grateful for in all this

That my husband admits there is a problem.

The guidance of the spirit, helping all (or enough) things come to light so I don't have to live a lie.

Knowing that it can get better, and hoping that it will.

Learning to forgive, for real.

The small glimpses I sometimes get into how God loves us and how much potential we have.

Having the opportunity to examine my own shortcomings.